What Do You Do …

… when you have a free evening and a relatively open weekend?

I know, these are serious and deep questions. Enough of that frivolous money talk. Let’s take this blog to the next level.

Weekend Relaxin’

I would do a survey but that’s beyond my technical blogging skills. Tim usually handles that sort of thing and he’s too busy to help little ole me. Instead I’ll just cover the basics and you let me know if this sounds like your idea of a good time.

Laundry

Come on, what’s not to like about a weekend full of laundry?

lights

darks

Where did I get all of these socks, and more importantly, WHERE are all their matches???? If you chose laundry as something that tops your list this weekend, perhaps we could get together and combine our unmatched socks. Surely between us we might have a few assembled pairs.

Bills

Another exciting way to spend a weekend. A desk full of bills. Do you see that Dell computer catalog in the stack of bills? Moral dilemma – keep the catalog or throw it away so it won’t be a SNARE to Tim? What do you think? So far it’s been buried on his desk and he hasn’t noticed it, but he LOVES to browse through the yummy computer catalog. Only a computer geek could think a Dell catalog was “yummy.” I don’t want to deprive him of an enjoyable read and I certainly don’t want to be disrespectful.

bills, bills, and more bills

On the other hand, it seems silly to keep chocolate around if you’ve chosen not to eat sugar. Same concept.

Slumber Party!

Let’s see, a Slumber Party in the upstairs hallway. Is there anyone else who thinks that is just the tad bit odd? You would think these children don’t already spend enough time together. Nope, they want to continue to the fun on into the evening.

let's party

No matter what the excitement, joy or fun, you certainly know that my weekend will contain some of this…

oh yeah!

Because really, what’s a little fun if you aren’t awake to enjoy it. Some of us need our caffeine, even on weekend. :)

What are YOU planning to do this weekend? Drop a note and let me know.

Kathy
Project 366 – Day One more than Yesterday

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Random Snapshots of Our Day

These pictures can’t truly capture our day, but neither will they make you green with envy over our exciting life.

It’s difficult being a blogging inspiration, but I try.

I was invited to a luncheon at a friend’s house today. Sarah, Daniel, and David accompanied me. We had a lovely time. It’s not often that I am able to visit with other moms in the middle of the day. Oh, the unadulterated luxury. My salad had feta cheese, shredded chicken, avocado and sliced tomatoes. Definitely grown-up food.

sarah's ready

Sarah dressed up for our party – skirt, sparkly top and a black velour cape. Next to her I was quite under-dressed and rather shabby. Thankfully she was there to give our family its much needed class.

We also did school, played chess, washed dishes (many times), and did computer work. These pictures are unedited, uncropped and terribly boring.

Sort of like our life at times.

disheschesscomputer work

I also managed to fit a dental appointment in to the day. Sorry NO picture of that little outing, although the office is GORGEOUS, newly renovated and impeccably decorated. Sarah’s party outfit would have been perfect. I really should have consulted with her before I left the house. Who knew you need to dress up for a teeth cleaning these days.

Because I don’t want this blog to be a complete waste of your precious time, I will share a few links.

Fight the Frump with Fussy Pants

Record your eating, track your nutritional info with Fitday.com

Enjoy some crock-pot recipes with Slow Cooker Thursday

Have fun getting organized over at Lysa TerKeurst’s Organized Swap Hop

Found a link to the world’s 50 most powerful blog put out by the Guardian’s Observer. Interesting collection. I skimmed the article but didn’t see a single Christian blog in the bunch. In fact, I did a ctrl find on the words God (nothing), Christian (nothing), and religion (again nothing). What does it mean that the world’s so called 50 most powerful blogs don’t deal with religion or God at all??

Something to ponder.

Note: I didn’t include the link as many of the blogs were not kid friendly.

Kathy
Project 366 – Day Whatever

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Roasted Veggies

This evening I prepared some delicious roasted vegetables for dinner. I took 3 small yellow onions and 1 large sweet onion, diced them all and put in a large baking pan. I misted them with some olive oil (with my wonderful Pampered Chef spritzer), added lots of minced garlic and some seasoning salt. I chopped three small red potatoes and added them to the onions.

let's just spritz something

Not my actual spritzer, my hands or my peppers.

Bake 400 for 20 minutes

Asparagus was $1.49 a pound last week I still can’t believe I didn’t buy more when it was so gloriously cheap. Still, it only lasts so long in the fridge and I’m the only asparagus lover in the family, so perhaps three bags was enough.

daniel and sarah in the Fort

“Sarah, you want any asparagus? Me neither!”

Snap woody ends off asparagus and add to onion/potato combo. Toss sliced mushrooms on top. Mist veggies with olive oil again and salt lightly.

Bake 425 for another 20 minutes

Okay, so the cooking time is approximate. Roast veggies until tender and delicious. Next time I’m adding some squash and fresh tomatoes in at the end with the mushrooms. Yum!

veggies anyone?

Enjoy!

Kathy
Project 366

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WFMW – 5 for $5

wfmwPicture this: sunny days, warm weather, cute summer purses and…

Bathing suits, shorts and tank tops!

I don’t mean to speak for all women, but those first images make me smile and the others CRINGE!! In rainy Washington, summer still seems awfully far away. Those gorgeous, warm days are coming, however, and I don’t want to let these frumpy, sweatshirt days lull me into thinking I am safe from skimpy styles and beach wear.

beach time

What to do? What to do?

Last year I went through a period of depression at the onset of summer. Instead of spending some time over the winter exercising and keeping fit and toned, I ATE and lazed my way through the cold months. I had a full bin of cute summer things I never even touched — too tight or pinched to wear.

This year I am determined to hit summer with confidence. I might not have that model worthy figure (I think that’s a bit elusive for this mother of five) but I can at least spend some time NOW eating healthy and exercising consistently.

How to do it? How to do it?

I am a person who loves a new idea, plan or contest. I need motivation and external rewards to keep me focused. As I thought about how to motivate myself to get off my comfy computer chair and into the gym, the Lord gave me a fantastic idea. I say the Lord because this was truly divine inspiration.

it's cold!

If you look closely you can see a little sister in the picture.
This is NOT beach weather.

Our church is hosting a women’s retreat in April. This provided the perfect, natural deadline. I’m on the retreat committee and will be helping to coordinate things over the weekend. In other words, I will be somewhat in the “public eye.” I have the opportunity to greet the women as they come, welcome new people, share some of how God has put this retreat together and so on. Last year we performed a hilarious skit using the Lord’s Prayer. I was in my bathrobe for that one but you never know what they’ll come up with this year.

Talk about motivation!

Five for $5

The premise is simple:

  1. Everyone who participates donates $5
  2. Each person selects 5 healthy living goals (food, exercise, water, etc)
  3. You have 100 points per week – distribute your points among your five goals
  4. Report your total points for the week each Monday
  5. The two contestants with the highest cumulative scores receive first and second prizes dividing the registration fees

That’s it! It happened to work out that there are 5 Mondays until our retreat so it’s actually 5 for $5 in 5 Weeks. Isn’t that perfect!!

My Goals ended up looking something like this:

  • A)Water: 64 oz/day (1pt/ day=7pts possible for the week)
  • B)Food Recording: 6 days/ week (4 pts=24pts for week)
  • C)Calories under 1700: 6 days/ week (4 pts=24pts for week)
  • D)Cardio – 45 minutes: 5 days/week (6pts=30 pts for week)
  • E)Wt training – 15 min: 3 days week(4pts=12 pts for week)

3 Bonus points if Cardio and Wt Training are completed for the week.

The response has been delightful! My initial thought was to invite only the retreat steering committee of four people (including myself). This soon spiraled beyond our group and we now have between 17 and 20 people participating. Almost every single person has thanked me for encouraging them to make some goals and Strive For Them! I’m thrilled that the Lord would use me to encourage others to develop self-control and a healthier lifestyle. Isn’t He creative!

I take no credit for the idea, it was whispered into my ear by the One who penned these words:

For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age…(Titus 2:11-12)

I encourage everyone to steal this idea, grab some friends and start your own 5 for $5 group. Let’s greet the summer with joy and confidence, knowing we have been disciplined and healthy in our eating and physical exercise.

It won’t be long before my kids are packing lunches, gathering suits and towels and heading for the beach.

from the ferry to the island

Grab the sunscreen and let’s go!

Kathy
Project 366

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I know Backwards Day was last week but my wonderful dh wrote this post yesterday and I just know there are some other Works for Me Wednesday bloggers who have words of wisdom for us regarding finances. Leave a comment, we need all the help we can get!

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This blog doesn’t really have anything to do with daylight savings time, although the recently-lost hour of sleep looms large in my consciousness. This afternoon Kathy and I were talking about a novel concept: saving money.

It isn’t an idea that comes very naturally to either of us, I’m sorry to say. We tend to live ‘in the moment’ much of the time, and (thanks to an excessive number of credit cards) we usually just buy something if it is not very expensive and we want it. We don’t go in for big ticket items, but the steady flow of self indulgent and other-indulgent spending is definitely not under strict regulation.

I looked it up on the internet, ’cause if it is on the internet, you know it must be true. It is sort of funny to see that there is a whole Wikipedia page on the subject of savings — I guess I’m not the only one that needed to research this strange concept.

A Quarter Saved is Twenty-Five Cents

Don’t get me wrong — we do actually do some saving. My employer matches a part of my 401(k) savings so that I’d be a fool not to put aside 5%, so I do. But apart from that, we don’t really save. We use credit to buy things we need but can’t afford, and (like many Americans) we have some considerable month-over-month credit card debt.

One of the significant problems we face is that saving doesn’t seem real, when you have any kind of debt. It doesn’t make a lot of sense to put money aside in a bank account that doesn’t generate interest, when you could pay off debt that probably costs you at least some kind of interest or fees. But once you pay off some debt, when do you decide that you can buy that item for which you are saving?

watch out!

I'm gonna get you!

Thankfully this stuff only cost a dollar.

Let’s start with a hypothetical example: suppose you owe $5000 on credit cards, and you’re paying 6% interest on that debt. Suppose (hypothetically, remember) that you really want to save up for a new computer that costs $700. What do you do?

One school of thought is that you pay off the entire $5000, before you even think of buying anything you don’t absolutely need. “Attack debt like the cancer it is!” they cry, frothing at the mouth at the idea of debt unvanquished. While such ideas are very inspiring, they don’t really take into account the self-indulgence that probably caused the situation in the first place. When I contemplate this scorched-earth attitude toward debt, and the barren wasteland of consumerism it requires (even for a season), my spirit quails. I’m just not willing to wait that long to gratify my desire, unless I have to.

Another school of thought gives a nod to motivating the saver, and suggests that payments against debt must be made, but (once those payments are satisfied each month) allows saving toward a goal. Supposing that monthly income minus expenses netted $400, they would say, “Spend half on retiring debt and half for future savings.” All other things remaining equal, this would mean that in three and a half months you’d have paid down your debt by $700, and saved enough for the new computer as well.

sarah gives it a try

Maybe Sarah should save up some money for a new hairdresser.

One problem with this is it is sometimes hard to see where the money goes, and hard to avoid dipping back into the debt that you pay off. Suppose I’m two months into my savings plan, and I’ve paid off $400 in debt and saved $400. Suddenly, you realize that you have to fix the brakes and tires on your car, which (hypothetically) costs $700. Do you:

  • (a) wait to fix the brakes until you’ve saved the $700, even if waiting may be unsafe or cause further costly damage to the car?
  • (b) spend the $400 that you’ve saved toward the computer, pay the rest on a credit card, and start over on your savings?
  • (c) pay the whole $700 for the brakes on a credit card and leave the $400 in savings alone, since it is allocated toward a particular item?
  • (d) pay the $400 from savings to the brake shop and negotiate for monthly payments (to avoid increasing credit debt)?

If only I had saved this ...
Not my actual cash …

Also, how do you actually handle the money? Do you put the $400 in a separate savings account, or do you go ahead and use it (until it is needed) to pay off the credit card?

Perhaps the most widely-accepted school of thought reasons like this: “Once you have a debt that is more than you can easily pay off, you might as well just buy whatever you want (within reason) and try not to let your debt get any bigger. Why get all upset about it, or deny yourself? Sooner or later, you’ll get a bonus, or you’ll sell your house for a profit, or you’ll earn more money … or something will bail you out.”

Of course, this last school of thought may be partly responsible for the massive 2.545 trillion dollar consumer credit debt currently plaguing our citizenry.

Several Bible passages come to mind:

The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender. — Proverbs 22:7

The wicked borrow and do not repay, but the righteous give generously; — Psalm 37:21

Give everyone what you owe him: If you owe taxes, pay taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then honor. Love, for the Day is Near. Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love one another, for he who loves his fellowman has fulfilled the law. — Romans 13:7-8

I know there must be at least one or two savers out there. What do you do? What practical steps do you use to help you get control of your money? Please be gentle — remember, you’re dealing with typical American consumers, thoroughly indoctrinated in the ways of easy credit.

Tim

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